Negativity is the way to a Happy Life.

It sounds confusing right? Almost all of the life coaches and motivational speeches told us that we need to get rid of negativity and think positively in life. These sounds to generic for me as a person and is really tiring to hear repeatedly and consistently; the need for something new arises for me. One thing I knew in life that this was never been paradise. This is a world full of evil things and negativity and maybe a world of never ending problems. I might sound weird nor depressed but let us embrace life as it is. I will give you some points to prove my argument without statistics nor citations but with one essential thing, common sense.

1. Goodness- Most of us maybe like me, wanted to do something good and escape the fear of oblivion by leaving a good mark in this world yet each and every step on the way gets intoxicated and feared of. Like maybe some of politicians, doctors, lawyers, and other professionals wanted to do good but if they take a step further, its the dead end for them. Instead of blaming someone for that event or circumstance, let us embrace that goodness roots even from bad things. Even though they couldn't take care of the corruption or they skipped an operation and the patient died or he acquitted a criminal, for the least, they saved someone from the brink. I understand the shame that you have in your heart but work on it. Work on your life not to be a good one and stop on the endless pursuit since maybe your not incapable or not in that position to do so. From that negative side of the world, work really hard to do just one thing, good.

2. Negative times Negative is equals to POSITIVE- For the sake of multiple times of having negative experiences, give it a shot to embrace more of it or exceed the negative assumption. Negative assumption is you are trying to accept the phenomena that everything could lead to negative things. Exemplifying that you tried out for a collegiate varsity team and you did great, your presumption were already "I'm in because the best plays was mine or I was greater than them", instead of thinking that maybe try to think that "I may did good but I could fall and can't get it pass through." Embrace the fact that there are many negative things that can occur in a day or in a month. If you tried to embrace things like that, it will be easier for you if you fell since you are already familiar with the situation. I am not saying that you should be negative at times but its just that it drags down positive expectations thus will hurt you badly if you fall. Last word, as for the saying "A door may close but the right one will open for you." Through these negative times and embracing negativity could help you get up and produce something great and therefore lead to positive things.

3. Never judge yourself- Reading this you might say, "What the heck is this guy really trying to point out?" "You are leading us to nowhere!" No, I am just opening different situations that might occur. Embracing negativity sometimes could lead you to "I might not make it" or "I will fail." If you could think of that, What things that you think you can do to avoid that? What things can I do to better? These things lead to another thing, Motivation. Embracing negativity can make you motivated to do good because it takes away complacency and boastfulness. Embrace negativity to the point that it can be motivation and not in the mere factor that it can drag you down. Never judge yourself because you can do better even if you embraced negative things, because negative things can make us work harder, stronger, and finish the task that we are dreaming of. Think like this "I might fall down or I might be rejected but I can work hard to make it better."

4. No one is with you- We tend to be downgraded or maybe depressed if we felt that no one cares or no one gives a shit about us, try to think that no one really gives a shit about us so why we do care? If no one gives a damn about you, just continue working hard and getting better so one day they can look up to you and just give a shit. It is a sense of pride if that happened and basically a sense of fulfillment. Just make yourself proud and make them look upon you but know your limitations so that you can never be branded as successful-yet-badass-trash. Just take it with you and never show it to others. Accept the reality that "Everyone looks up to those guys who have money, fame, power, and good professional and societal standing." Therefore, if you want to be respected as hell, try to get all of those and not just be a good guy who does good shits and gets humiliated and belittled.

5. Mind is the power- All those things that can drag you down and make you fell trash as hell, use your mind to accept that they will be as is unless we tried to prove something. If we did good on our part and achieve things that will make them bow down then, you succeeded. The heart softens one soul but the mind teaches it on how, when, and where to be one. It makes us a decision making entity that it could lead us to many discernment and decision making moments.If we used the power of our own minds, we can get rid of the outside world and live on our own world, the world inside our minds. Lastly, it is placed by the Divine Creator above our hearts since it teaches us to be soft or to use our hearts first and then let our minds think or decide if that certain thing was the best for the greater good.



                      
                        Photo Credits to : Mindful (Summer Allen and Jeremy Adam Smith)
        
                                     

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